Every couple enters marriage with values, beliefs, and priorities that feel obvious to them. Values are the core beliefs and principles each person holds about what is right, important, or worthwhile in life. Most people assume their partner sees life the same way they do. But when two people start building a life together, those assumptions get tested. Decisions about money, family, faith, career, parenting, rest, and purpose all reveal what each person actually values.
Shared values do not mean you agree on everything. It simply means you have clarity about what matters most and you are committed to moving in the same overall direction. Couples get into trouble when they build a marriage without ever naming their deeper values. They may be compatible in personality, but they are pulling in different directions when it comes to what they want from life.
