I have heard this over and over again in the past few weeks and exposed an important problem faced by most family farms trying to transition from generation to generation.We find it extremely difficult to actually speak the truth about how each person is feeling in the operation and often times it leaves the operation in complete chaos.There is going to have to come a time when there is going to be a pull for someone to stand up and start taking action and leading the farm. That means colliding with family and colliding with those who you are closest with. If you do not do this, the cost of the operation long could literally mean losing it all.