In this episode of G’day Gay, Russell and Paul dive deep into the psychology, dynamics, and allure of dating “daddies” in the gay community. For Russell, dating an older man once provided a sense of stability and mentorship he couldn’t find in younger partners. He opens up about his experience navigating the complexities of dating a “daddy” and what he learned about attraction, age, and personal growth. Paul, on the other hand, talks about his ongoing attraction to older men, exploring the appeal that “daddies” have for many gay men – from their confidence and life experience to a sense of authority that can feel comforting or grounding.
Throughout the episode, they break down how “daddy issues” can play out in relationships, especially when a power dynamic is involved. The hosts discuss how an age gap can sometimes lead to an unbalanced relationship if one partner takes on a mentorship role or controls aspects of the relationship, potentially leading to dependency or challenges with autonomy. Both hosts reflect on the importance of healthy boundaries and mutual respect, making sure that despite age differences, each partner’s needs are met.
This episode balances humor and depth, allowing Russell and Paul to share some funny anecdotes and “Oh No” moments, while also providing insights into how attraction to older men can be about more than just age – it’s about connection, comfort, and sometimes a search for something missing in other relationships.
