Description

In this episode, Nicole and Aseelah explore the complex topic of forgiveness, reflecting on personal experiences and discussing why it's so challenging. They also touch on how spirituality and beliefs influence the ability to forgive. Nicole shares her perspective on navigating forgiveness in her own life. Aseelah also shares her professional insights on the role of forgiveness in our lives and its impact on mental and physical well-being. Whether you have BPD or not, this conversation offers valuable perspectives and tools for reaching a place of healing. Tune in for an insightful exploration of this essential emotional journey.

Disclaimer: The title of this podcast and its contents are not intended to in any way promote, encourage, or advocate suicide or any form of self-harm. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide and needs support, please call 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

Here is the episode breakdown:

Guest: Aseelah El-Amin: https://www.instagram.com/talkptwithseesee/

In this episode, you will hear:

• 0:00 Intro

(Beginning of Interview)

• 1:08 Nicole’s Opening Statement and Beginning Pleasantries
• 3:53 What Does Forgiveness Mean?
• 7:11 Why is It Difficult to Forgive?
• 10:23 Is It Easier to Hold A Grudge?
• 12:08 Nicole’s POV: A Time Where You Struggled with Forgiveness
• 19:31 Aseelah’s POV: A Time Where You Struggled with Forgiveness
• 23:38 Did Your Spirituality Affect How You Affect Your Choice to Forgive?
• 28:18 The Philosophy of Forgiveness
• 30:31 Navigating Forgiveness as a pwBPD or A Person Without BPD
• 34:47 Other Strengths To Consider To Get to A Place of Forgiveness
• 37:07 What Would Aseelah’s Clients Think?
• 39:33 More On Spirituality, The Physicality, and The Science of Forgiveness
• 48:31 Aseelah’s Final Words

(End of Interview)

• 50:48 Nicole Closing Statement
• 51:12 BPD Daily Mantra
• 51:28 Outro
• 52:49 “Forgive Them” by Jane Handcock, Harry Simmons: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arhT2OSTGlA
• Episode Resources:
  • Website: https://www.showmegrace.org/

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  Connect with the Host:

  Nicole Darby: presspause4grace@gmail.com

  Credits:

  Hosts: Aseelah El-Amin and Nicole Darby

  Music Producer of Podcast’s Intro Music: DJtheIII

  Sound Engineer: Stefan Mitroi

  Podcast Producer: Nicole Darby

  Research Team: Nicole Darby & Tamar Brignolle