I explain what celibacy did to me and how Ive changed my mind about being celibate and just how God knows we have stuff, he just doesnt want stuff to have us. I decided to share this because I know how we get condemned for doing things that God knows we deal with but instead of being a community that uplifts one another, we'd rather judge especially when most come with a mess themselves, they just hide it well. So I show through my celibacy journey how you can really come with stuff and God will do a work in you. I admire living in my truth because I know how eager I am for black women to feel empowered off their story & allow God to use them, we are set free by our testimonies! So happy to be in this moment of transparency.