In the world of movies, books, and reality TV, one of the enduring relational themes is the search for your soulmate. If only this relational myth stayed in the world of fiction. The idea that there is one special person that will complete you and fulfill your every need sounds romantic, but it's not true. There is not just one person, your soulmate, for you to marry that will can you can find ultimate love and happiness with. God gives us commands and principles for us to follow and make a reasoned choice for a spouse. Once you marry that person, they do become your sole-mate. When you marry someone, God's desire is that person is now your one and only spouse for as long as you both shall live.