In this episode I am joined by Wendy, Mum of 3.
Wendy talks a little about divorce- her parents and her own. She tells us how she felt judged as a parent by numerous people, including professionals, and that even now, that's still quite raw.
Her middle son has ADHD and Autism and this was a huge factor in the judgement she felt she faced. Wendy tells us this brings challenges in itself let alone as a one parent family.
Wendy found that the usual strategies weren't working, people that should have been supporting her weren't and she was juggling so many balls and not coping. She felt on her own and like no-one was listening.
The pressure of everything resulted in Wendy having a breakdown.
This however made Wendy reflect on things and change them- including leaving her job. But this was the best decision she could have made.
Wendy reflects on the experience of her oldest son unexpectedly going to live with his dad, how she felt like she'd lost a major part of her and was heartbroken. But how they're now in a good place and how her two eldest sons are great friends.
Wendy tells us how having boys, she's found it difficult to navigate puberty and keeping an open communication about that- Finding the balance between not making them feel embarrassed but also creating that open door to know they can talk to her.
Wendy's biggest parenting value is mutual respect.
Another honest conversation about parenting!
