Passing judgement isn't toxic. It becomes toxic when we start imposing our judgements on others. If we keep them to ourselves they can be used for what I think this inevitable feeling is truly for. Allowing our judgements to point us towards our ideal selves, getting to know ourselves better, and helping us decipher the things we do and don't believe in to create a life we're proud to live. I'm sick of feeling like an a*shole every time I judge someone and never being able to maintain the unbreakable habit of being impeccable with my word. As long as we aren't intentionally or unintentionally causing harm to others we can redirect these seemingly negative thoughts to something more constructive for our own growth.