Letting go heals faster than trying harder. In this Wellish conversation, I am sitting down with Alisha Kapani, a mind–body mentor and quantum health coach, to unpack why hyper-control and hustle can keep you stuck. Alisha shares her story of depression and social anxiety, how “giving up” softened her resistance, and the moment she followed intuition into mind-body medicine and theta healing. We dig into the biology (fight-or-flight vs. parasympathetic), the feminine energy first approach to processing emotions, and Alisha’s 3-step A.B.C. Tool—Awareness, Breath, Conscious Choice—for nervous system regulation you can use today. We also talk self-abandonment, unconditional self-love vs. conditional fixing, manifestation detachment (yes, my feather story), and how the mirror neuron effect accelerates growth when you learn from embodied expanders. If you’ve been doing “all the things” and still feel stuck, this episode reframes healing from forcing to aligned action, so your body can do what it’s designed to do: heal.
Topics: surrender vs control, emotional processing, identity & beliefs, intuitive guidance, trauma healing, depression recovery, nervous system regulation, quantum healing, feminine/masculine balance, practical practices for everyday life.
Resources: Alisha Kapani — IG: @alisha_kapani • alishakapani.com (FREE mind–body tools and theta healing info)
