I want to talk about something that has been on my mind lately, something that I think is important for all of us, including my own children. Life has its ups and downs, and there are times when we need to understand what's happening around us. That's where discernment comes in.
Discernment has become a significant part of my life in the past few weeks because I've experienced some incredible changes. These changes are ones I've been praying for, but they also require me to realign with my true purpose and calling.
At that time, I realized that my present situation wasn't working because I wasn't honoring God's call. I had been avoiding my true purpose, finding excuses, and inviting chaos into my life by pursuing things that weren't aligned with my calling. Most of my time was consumed by work that I was good at but wasn't truly fulfilling.
Then, unexpectedly, my friend Brian, whom I have a deep bond with, called me to have a difficult conversation. He realized that he was holding me back from my higher calling, and we needed to part ways professionally. It was a tough moment, but I valued our relationship above all else.
This experience led me to reconfigure my path, and together with my team, we quickly built coaching and training programs that aligned with my true purpose. We faced another challenge when my largest video production contract was terminated right before my ordination weekend, causing significant financial strain. It hurt deeply, but I refused to dwell in resentment or despair. I didn't let circumstances define me. Instead, I chose to see the human being behind it all, focusing on the importance of relationships. I expressed gratitude for the opportunity to work together and acknowledged that our paths were diverging. I learned that discernment also involves choosing the right people to surround yourself with, people who live by their values and align with who you are as a person.
So, I want to leave you with this message: Take a moment to reflect on your life. Are there any situations where you're holding onto victimhood? What are you unwilling to let go of?
"Do not conform yourself to this age…that you may discern what is the will of God." - Rom 12:1-2
Blessings on your path,
Rev. Benjamin Norman
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