Today's guest is Blaine Anderson! 
Blaine is a dating coach for men. She specializes in helping guys build confidence, learn to authentically market themselves, and attract amazing partners fast. You can find her on Instagram at @datingbyblaine or her website datingbyblaine.com. In this interview, we discuss:
- The 5 E's to Dating Success
- How to use technology to find people you want to date
- How to build systems in your life to meet the people you want in your life
- How you should view rejection
- Dating Red Flags
- How her masterclass could change your life and so much more!
Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on
- How has she noticed dating change over the last ten years?
- How technology has had a large impact on dating.
- Has she noticed key problems that men worldwide have when it comes to dating?
- Men do not know how to market themselves, to communicate to others about what makes them great partners for women.
- Stop selling yourself to women, stop seeking validation from them!
- Passion is sexy! Women are attracted to you when you are being passionate about whatever you love!
- Women want to join a fun life, not be your entire life
- What are Blaine's key 5 E's to dating?
- What are signs that you need a dating coach
- Does pick-up work?
- Women notice when you are not being an authenticate person, and they can spot when you are not being true to yourself.
- How do you build an attractive social life and build chances to meet new people?
- How do you overcome the fear of going out and trying new things to meet new people?
- It is ok to be nervous! If you want new experiences, you need to step out of your comfort zone!
- Rejection is part of life! Being rejected by someone isn't a life or death situation, you have just found one person you are not connected to, and are closer to finding people that you will be connected with!
- How can you build systems to meet women in your everyday life?
- Stop pressurizing yourself with unrealistic expectations, remove the burden of asking for numbers etc - go in with the only goal of meeting new people.
- How can you rediscover your confidence and love yourself again after a divorce, pandemic etc?
- Why would you want to do what Clooney would do?!
- How to deal with social anxiety?
- Practise chatting and flirting with everyone in your life, so it is natural when it comes to actually speaking to the ones you wish to date and attract
- How do we switch the mindset of feeling nervous to approach someone to actually feeling excited about it?
- You are not going to be everyone's cup of tea, 98% of people will not be interested, but the 2% will change your life!
- Blaine's fantastic advice for how to deal with rejection when you approach people!
- How should we approach people?
- How the situation affects how you should approach someone you are interested in?
- Why do you need to think of yourself as a prize and not just accept whoever is interested in you?
- What are dating red flags that you need to watch out for
- How do relationship dynamics change as we age in terms of what we want out of life and in our partners?
- You need to trust your gut on if they are right for you or not
- How can you gauge if someone is interested in your or not?
- How do we avoid putting someone on a pedestal and stop projecting futures with people when there isn't one
- How you should use technology to meet new people and obtain dates
- The 3 key things you need on your dating profile!
- You need to be unique on your dating profile. You need to seem like a real person, an attractive, passionate person.
- Women care far more on how you make them feel compared to how you look on whether the attraction is there ... or stays.
- How do you keep the spark alive when in a relationship?
- How to learn from your past relationships.
- How can Blaine help you by coaching you.
- Why you need to sign up for Blaine's Masterclass right now!
