The first time I show one of my Bees how her husband's behavior isn't in charge of her feelings, she almost always responds with some silence, some side eye and then some version of the phrase… “but… it effects me.”
I always answer with, "Totally."⠀⠀⠀
Then she gives me more side eye.
I go on to explain that OF COURSE your husband's choices, words and behavior effect you. OF COURSE THEY DO. The trick is - YOU get to decide HOW his choices, words and behavior effect you.
Listen in this week to find out how to choose on purpose - every time.
Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 19 - No Expectations?! No Thanks! - Candice Toone Coaching
