Religion has changed love into something it isn't because it doesn't fit their interests. Our society has redefined leaders and fathers as condemnatory. Fathering leaders, who accurately represent the Father's heart, are not trying to condemn you, but they might be judging you. Yahshua was constantly correcting wrong understanding of who the Father is. Today, people disrespect authority, but they want all that the authority has to give, expecting the authority to give it, even to the point of demanding it. Children need to know how to relate to authority.