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Welcome to The Pulling Curls Podcast, where we untangle the complexities of pregnancy and parenting. In today's episode, titled "Postpartum Mindset with Dr. Fran," we dive into the unique experiences and challenges faced during the postpartum period. Our guest, Dr. Fran, who recently had a baby, shares insights into her own journey and offers valuable tips for maintaining a positive mindset during this transformative time. Join us as we navigate the joys and struggles of postpartum life, providing support and understanding for new parents everywhere.

Big thanks to our sponsor my postpartum checklist: https://birdsend.page/forms/844/aDZzbjpRhJ

Today's guest is Dr. Franziska Haydanek, an ObGyn attending, former blogger, current TIktok obsessed, and mama of two young children. Find her on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pagingdrfran

Links for you:

Dr Fran's previous episode (also great — episode 148): https://www.pullingcurls.com/podcast-148-refuse-routine/

Timestamps:

00:02:57 Postpartum is happier than pregnancy for me.
00:04:22 He didn't have time for sitting around, which was great for him, but not helpful for me in the postpartum state. Children went to daycare to maintain routine.
00:09:23 Physical and mental states after childbirth.
00:13:03 Stay flexible, avoid disappointment and anxiety.
00:15:19 Bay Area normalized us; expect and move on, cry but still manage.
00:19:01 TikTok reveals surprising postpartum sleep struggles.
00:22:43 Doctor Fran thanks for joining, sponsored by Postpartum Checklist. Get free postpartum organization checklist. Last episode of mindset month.

Keypoints:

1. The importance of addressing the postpartum mindset and the challenges it presents.
2. The role of sleep deprivation and its impact on new parents' well-being.
3. The experiences of both speakers in returning to work after having a baby.
4. The need for flexibility and adaptability in postpartum routines and schedules.
5. The challenges and benefits of having children in daycare during the postpartum period.
6. The importance of having an equal parenting partner and a smooth transition into the postpartum period.
7. The struggles and successes of breastfeeding, including difficulties and support systems.
8. The impact of postpartum anxiety on new parents and strategies for coping with it.
9. The benefits of focusing on the positive aspects of postpartum recovery, such as newfound freedom.
10. The recognition of privilege in postpartum experiences, including support and financial stability.

Producer: Drew Erickson