In this powerful Reza Rifts episode, host Keith Reza sits down with author and former musician Kaila Yu for a deep, necessary conversation about her explosive new book 'Fetishized'. They pull back the curtain on the pervasive fetishization of Asian women—from harmful stereotypes and sex tourism to the tragic Atlanta spa shootings. Kaila shares shocking personal stories from her time in the music industry, insights on Hollywood misrepresentation, and even behind-the-scenes tales from the Fast & Furious franchise. This is an essential listen for anyone ready to challenge societal norms and understand diverse perspectives.
🔥 Key Discussion Points:
- The real impact of Asian fetishization
- How the Atlanta shootings changed the conversation
- Shocking stories from the music industry and groupie culture
- Hollywood’s failure in accurate representation
- The personal journey of writing a groundbreaking book
🔴 Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome to Reza Rifts
00:10 – Introducing Kaila and Her New Book
01:24 – The Impact of the Pandemic on Kaila's Career
01:52 – Going Viral on TikTok
02:16 – Reflecting on the Atlanta Spa Shootings
02:54 – Discussing American Knowledge of Asian Cultures
04:47 – Kaila's Cultural Background and Education
05:47 – Learning Languages and Cultural Differences
07:35 – Writing and Publishing 'Fetishized'
10:09 – The Origins of Asian Fetishization
12:16 – Sex Tourism and Its Implications
13:14 – Relationships and Infidelity
14:57 – Groupies and Music Industry Experiences
15:56 – Choosing Stories for the Book
16:34 – Entertainment Industry and Stereotypes
17:51 – Hollywood's Misrepresentation of Autism
19:32 – Writing Process and Overcoming Writer's Block
20:26 – Transition from Modeling to Music
21:59 – Experiences in the Music Industry
23:15 – Insights on the Fast and the Furious Franchise
25:49 – Advice to Younger Self
29:53 – Book Release and Promotion
🔗 Connect with Kaila Yu:
📚 Get 'Fetishized': https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/738645/fetishized-by-kaila-yu/
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kailayu/
🌐 Website: https://kailayu.com/
📖Forbes: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kailayu/
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