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🖼️ Let me paint you a picture...

After weeks of contemplating and going back and forth on whether you should say something or not, you’ve FINALLY built up enough courage to have that tough conversation with your boss.

I mean you’ve done the self-talk in the mirror, practiced your speech with your dog, and have it ALL scripted out. You feel ready!

THEN, when it comes down to walking into their office and speaking up in the meeting you choke.

You find yourself deflecting, overexplaining, beating around the bush and ultimately leaving feeling as though you didn’t say anything that you wanted to say.

Sound familiar?

Ladies, it is about TIME that we learn to use our words and ask for what it is that we want and need… and with some confidence!

Tune in to this week’s episode, and let’s grow in this area.

Time Stamps:

• 2:27 Use Your Words
• 4:10 Client example
• 5:27 What is it that you really want?
• 6:34 The psychology behind how to ask for what you want
• 7:20 What the “F” is going on inside of you?
• 9:40 Get clear on the facts
• 12:22 Organize your thoughts in a way that will get your point across
• 12:40 Send an email to Diana@dianarpatton.com for a letter form
• 14:05 Do an analysis to support what it is that your asking for
• 15:55 You have to SEND it
• 17:45 Negotiation
• 17:58 They said no? Ask AGAIN.
• 19:27 “You have not because you ask not…”
• 19:55 Send me an email!

References:

• Diana’s email: Diana@dianarpatton.com