You give perfect advice to everyone else—clear, confident, obvious solutions. But when it's your own life, you're paralyzed. Not because you're a hypocrite. Because you can't see your own life from the outside. There's a cognitive blind spot that makes you brilliant at solving other people's problems while stuck in your own. You'll learn why distance creates clarity, the exact mechanism that traps you in your patterns, and how to become your own best advisor. The gap between the advice you give and the decisions you make reveals everything.