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This episode we're finally talking about one of our favorite R&B girls, Summer Walker. She had too many bops to choose from on her album Over It, and we couldn't decide, so we picked "Riot" off her 2019 EP, Clear. It's all about expressing to someone that you need passion in your relationship, and that some boring, too-easy love, isn't gonna cut it. It's so relatable because we've been conditioned to think love has to be this fiery passionate thing, but sometimes that can become unrealistic in a long term situation, and borderline toxic. Is passion overrated? There has to be some happy medium, and like always communication is the only thing that will help everyone involved be happy. Love languages need to be discussed and effort needs to be made to make your partner feel desired and loved if that's what they're asking for. At the end of the day, the grass is greener where you water it, so focus on your relationship and stop comparing it or trying to uphold it to other standards that have nothing to do with what works for you.

We end with some tweets about dudes that beg for a chance with you just to end up fucking you over, and healthy discussions versus arguments in relationships.

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Intro song - Lo-fi Type Beat - Dreaming (Prod. Lee)