This episode I'm getting into the myth that after marriage your sex life dies, and how the blame seems to be put on women. I'm also talking about Fousheé's song "2 l8" from her latest project Time Machine, which uses the chorus from the 1971 song "It's Too Late", by Carole King. The original song is a timeless classic and I really love Fousheé's rendition because it takes on a different perspective on a love that has gone past the point of salvation. You gotta nurture the relationship while it's good or lose it forever.
I came across a Tik Tok of 2 women talking about how they don't give their husbands head anymore and how it grosses them out, so I dive into the different possible reasons as to why this is a common situation in marriage or long term relationships. I think there is a huge disconnect between what men and women need in a relationship to even be aroused enough to keep the sex life poppin. For men I feel like they are just horny for no reason 24/7 whereas for women, more often than not, especially in a long term relationship, it's a mental thing. There is a need for a deeper connection and that along with hidden resentment from carrying the burden of domestic duties, or child care, etc., can eventually lead to a failed relationship.
Stick around for a PSA I have about the dangers of stalkers and social media, based on recent stories and videos that have been circulating Twitter lately.
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Intro song - Lo-fi Type Beat - Dreaming (Prod. Lee)
