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Your Emotions Aren't the Problem: Non-Attachment, Regulation & the REER Framework
What if your emotions were never the problem, and you were just never taught what to do with them? In this solo episode I'm getting honest about the emotional experience, non-attachment, and how we move through our feelings instead of being run by them. We talk about why we chase dopamine hits when we're not taught to regulate, what the Blue Zones reveal about staying well, and what the Bhagavad Gita says about controlling the senses (spoiler: it's like controlling the wind). I break down the Venus into Virgo transit and the honest inventory it's asking for, why proximity and frequency matter more than information, and I share the framework I finally gave a name to: REER. Regulate, Educate, Embody, Radiate. If you've done all the inner work and still feel stuck, this one's for us.
In this episode:
- 00:00 - Non-attachment as one of the biggest lessons of this lifetime
- 02:37 - Why your emotions are the superpower, not the flaw
- 05:44 - The "I need it right now" test and emotional authority
- 06:40 - How far we've drifted from what actually regulates us
- 07:42 - What the Blue Zones teach about longevity
- 10:02 - Too much, not enough, and being perfectly you
- 13:36 - Controlling the wind: the Bhagavad Gita on the senses
- 15:41 - Information overload and carving out space to ground
- 16:29 - Venus into Virgo, the South Node, and an honest inventory
- 19:02 - Doing the inner work but getting stuck on the action
- 19:48 - Proximity, energy, and the frequency you keep
- 21:07 - Losing people as you level up
- 24:05 - Mercury retrograde and your emotional patterns
- 25:26 - You are the niche
- 26:39 - The REER framework: Regulate, Educate, Embody, Radiate
- 31:00 - "I control me": working with your triggers
- 32:05 - Attune, and what's coming next week
Coffee Chat
Mercury Retrograde Workbook
Third Space
Attune: 7 day nervous system regulation practice
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