The Need for Bullies — Episode Summary
In this controversial episode, Tombo challenges a modern assumption: that all bullying must be eliminated at all costs. While acknowledging that bullying can be harmful, he argues that conflict, resistance, and confrontation are powerful developmental forces—especially in childhood.
Drawing from raw, personal stories of facing bullies growing up, Tombo explains how those moments built confidence, courage, and the ability to stand up for what’s right. He makes the case that learning to confront fear early prepares people to face adult bullies later—those hidden in workplaces, institutions, school boards, churches, and positions of power.
The episode explores why over-sterilizing childhood environments may unintentionally produce adults who comply instead of lead, avoid conflict instead of confronting injustice, and lack the resilience needed to protect themselves and others. Tombo emphasizes that courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s acting while afraid.
This is a call to parents, leaders, and individuals: strengthen people instead of shielding them, train kids to stand on their own feet, and recognize that standing up—even when it’s uncomfortable—is how leaders, defenders, and change-makers are formed.
Provocative, unapologetic, and deeply personal—this episode will challenge how you think about adversity, parenting, and what it really takes to become strong.
What you agree with gains permission to operate in your life.
