If you want to learn about LOVE, you'd best look to the OX. Like a stray OX, Love is inconvenient, Love is intrusive and you will be tempted to ignore it.
Similarly, a decision to love is inconvenient, intrusive and you’ll be tempted ignore engaging in the whole business.
What is love like? If it involves a wandering OX, then run to the OX.
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