What if the fastest way to help kids bounce back isn’t more advice, but more care they can feel? We sat down with clinical child psychologist Dr. Peter Montminy to unpack compassion as a teachable skill—empathy plus the intention to help—and how it strengthens resilience at home and in the classroom. From the first minutes, we connect the science to the everyday: mirror neurons tuning into others’ emotions, the vagus nerve shaping the “vibe” of a room, and the dopamine and oxytocin shifts that turn caring into a virtuous cycle of calm and connection.
We share how compassionate attention opens kids up to coaching on coping, communication, and self-regulation. You’ll hear a guided loving-kindness practice you can try tonight—wishing safety, health, happiness, and ease for a loved one, yourself, a struggling child, and the wider community. Then we get tactical: morning intentions that take 60 seconds, end-of-day reflections that take two, gratitude jars that keep small wins visible, and kindness walls that change classroom culture. These small routines build social-emotional skills, reduce isolation, and create safer spaces for learning.
We also tackle a common myth: compassion isn’t rose-colored denial. It’s a clear-eyed response to real stress that balances hard truths with purposeful care. By modeling that stance—“things are tough, and we can still choose kindness”—we give kids a resilient mindset they can carry into conflict, setbacks, and growth. If you’re a parent, caregiver, or educator looking for evidence-based tools to make compassion a daily habit, this conversation offers both science and steps you can use right away.
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This podcast is brought to you by Jana Marie Foundation and A Mindful Village.
Jana Marie Foundation is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization located in State College, Pennsylvania which harnesses the power of creative expression and dialogue to spark conversations build connections, and promote mental health and wellbeing among young people and their communities. Learn more at Jana Marie Foundation.
A Mindful Village is Dr. Peter Montminy's private consulting practice dedicated to improving the mental health of kids and their caregivers. Learn more at A Mindful Village | Holistic Mental Health Care for Kids.
Music created by Ken Baxter.
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This podcast was developed in part under a grant number SM090046 from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). The views, policies, and opinions expressed are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect those of SAMHSA, HHS or the Pennsylvania Department of Human Services.
