Today's Podcast delves into the complexities of relationships with Cluster B individuals, particularly covert narcissists, emphasizing the importance of not overlooking past abusive behaviors and not excusing toxic traits. I highlight the challenge of forgiving abusers while questioning whether forgiveness enables harmful behavior. I stress the need for self-reflection to break free from dysfunctional dynamics and warn against idealizing or trying to change individuals with narcissistic or borderline personality traits who lack empathy. I caution against falling into the manipulative traps of these individuals and emphasize the necessity of acknowledging the reality of toxic relationships to protect oneself in the present and future.