"For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will He withhold from them that walk uprightly." -Psalm 84:11
Suffering is inevitable. We live in a fallen world. We all were born in sin and because of that, we will have problems. But Jesus came and died for us to remove the penalty of sin. He came that we might live life abundantly. And, to do this, we must follow Him and trust His plans for us.
We can't put God in a box; believing that He should do things our way. In God's sovereignty and providence, He uses our circumstances (good or bad) to achieve His divine purposes in the earth and in us, and through us.