Parenting Time for Newborns, Toddlers, and Young Children: Considerations for Divorce
In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya discusses key factors to consider when creating a parenting plan for newborns, toddlers, and preschool-aged children. Drawing on personal experience as a father, Ryan provides practical advice for divorced parents to ensure their young children have a consistent and nurturing routine while maintaining strong relationships with both parents.
Episode Outline
Introduction: The Unique Needs of Newborns and Toddlers
Ryan opens by discussing the distinct challenges of formulating a parenting plan for newborns and toddlers, emphasizing the need for consistency and communication between parents.
Parenting Plans for Newborns
For newborns, Ryan suggests creating a predictable schedule that covers feeding, sleeping, and diaper changes. He highlights the importance of frequent contact with both parents, particularly for first-time parents, and the need for a logbook to track the baby’s routine.
Considerations for Overnights
Ryan discusses the unique issues parents face when considering overnights for the father, especially if the baby is breastfeeding. He also reviews potential schedules for newborns, such as alternating every two days or a three-day rotation.
Parenting Plans for Toddlers
As toddlers become more independent and emotionally attached to caregivers, Ryan advises creating a predictable schedule and addressing common challenges like separation anxiety and attachment issues. He recommends incorporating FaceTime or video calls for toddlers to stay connected with the other parent.
Parenting Plans for Preschoolers
Preschoolers, like babies and toddlers, thrive on consistency, and Ryan emphasizes the need for frequent time with both parents. He suggests including provisions for daycare and preschool to ensure social opportunities and encourages parents to align on decisions related to early childhood education.
Conclusion: Flexibility and Communication
Ryan concludes by stressing the importance of flexibility and communication between parents to ensure the child's emotional well-being and developmental needs are met. He encourages parents to adapt the plan as their child grows and their needs evolve.
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