Recovery fatigue is a rarely discussed but a common experience for men trying to rebuild after betrayal. What happens when all the meetings, check-ins, and recovery work start to feel overwhelming or—worse yet—like they're not making a difference?
Dan Drake, a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex addiction therapist with over 20 years of experience, joins us to unpack this challenging reality. He shares insights on how recovery motivation makes all the difference: "If I'm checking boxes trying to do these things to get my wife back and stop her from pestering me, that's going to be a different motivation than 'I get to do these things to thrive and become a better human being.'"
Resources:
Kintsugi Recovery Partners (Find a Disclosure Guide)
Books:
Full Disclosure (For the Disclosing Individual)
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal Vol 1 (For Partners)
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal Vol 2 (For Partners)
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal Vol 3 (For Partners)
🗓️ Upcoming:
Men’s Webinar - The 3 Biggest Reasons You Keep Going Back to Porn (and what you can do about them)
Thursday, March 5, 2026 | 🕛 12–1 PM EST 👉Reserve your seat here
You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP
Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:
👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)