Jordan shares some recent dating experiences, and the twins discuss some dating advice, dating as twins, how the stories we tell ourselves can limit us, and more.
Takeaways
- Dating as a twin is different, and we aren’t always good at small talk…
- It’s good to be vulnerable in some ways but read the room and don’t put all your baggage on someone right up front.
- Having a list of personality wants for your future loved one helps in manifesting them.
- There’s really no rush in dating.
- Sometimes dating feels like a chore; try to find ways to make it fun for you. Maybe you at least discover a new restaurant.
- Why do you want a relationship? Is it to impress someone else, a fear, a challenge to yourself?
- Twins without their twins naturally look for a “replacement.”
- What are you missing or feel like you can only find in another person? Try to find that in yourself.
- When making a life change, evaluate where the motivation is coming from, such as fear, growth, boredom, etc.
- Working a new person into the established family (ie brother-in-law) can take time, and this is okay.
- Stories of lack or unworthiness that we tell ourselves do hurt us.
- If the worst case scenario does happen, deal with it then, and even then it’s only one moment in time.
- Even people who hustle all the time can’t control the end result; we can’t control anything outside ourselves.
- Things can be as temporary or long as you want, but also read the other person: are they making an effort to be with you or not?
- You decide if someone or something is worth your time.
- Be open to new ways of dating, but feel free to do what makes you most comfortable. Have fun with it too!
Links
- Five Love Languages - https://www.5lovelanguages.com/
- Twinning - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/twin-dilemmas/201711/your-own
- Stories we tell ourselves - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOujk6weKjA
- https://zenhabits.net/narrative/
- Law of Attraction - https://www.verywellmind.com/understanding-and-using-the-law-of-attraction-3144808
- Law of Oneness - https://oursubconsciousmind.com/the-law-of-divine-oneness/
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