Just like your life moves in the direction of your strongest thoughts, so does your biz.
We all have thoughts- negative and positive- entering our brain all the time. It’s what we choose to do with them that matters.
Our brains are wired to hold onto negative thoughts and memories at least 3x more than positive experiences.
Confirmation bias > subconsciously looking for evidence to support a given belief or thought
Ex. Look for blue cars or everything purple in the room.
What you focus on is key. Will you entertain or extinguish those limiting/negative thoughts?
Have you ever wondered why it seems like some people just always have everything go right & others everything is always going wrong?
Nothing ever always goes right or wrong. It’s what each person has chosen to focus on (perspective) and what they do with what’s happening.
So I’m going to teach you the power of the reframe- life isn’t happening to you or for you, it’s just happening. It’s up to you with what you think about it.
Example-
>No one is saying yes to me.
People are saying yes.
People want to say yes to me when I listen and offer a recommendation that’s clear and actionable.
>I don’t have enough time.
Everyone has 24 hours in a day.
I have all the time I need to do the things that are most important to me.
>No one wants what I’m selling.
People do want what I’m offering.
People just like I was are desperately looking for this and I’m the best person to help them.
> I don’t know anyone.
There are 7+ billion people in this world.
I know lots of people and meet new people every day as I practice awareness.
It’s taking a thought that doesn’t serve. Reframing from a new perspective rooted in truth and then putting it into practice.
Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."
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