In this hard but holy episode, Chelsey goes deep into the difference between suffering well and suffering wrongly. Many women have confused silence with submission, believing the lie that faithfulness to God means tolerating emotional, spiritual, or even physical harm. That’s not God’s design.
This conversation breaks down:
If you’ve felt trapped, confused, or like no one sees what’s really going on behind the “Christian” marriage facade… this episode is for you. You are not crazy. You are not alone. And there is a way forward.
Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."
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If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.
This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
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Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.
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