If you’ve ever been told that the solution to your marriage struggles is “just go on more dates,” this one’s for you.
In this raw and real episode, Chelsey dismantles the cultural myth that date nights can fix what’s broken in your marriage. She shares her own story of trying to “paint over ashes” when the real issue was a missing foundation—and how only God’s design and grace can rebuild what’s been burned down.
Inside this episode:
This is not about another surface-level solution—it’s about deep, holy restoration.
Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."
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If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.
This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
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Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.
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