On this week's episode of Unslurred I'm joined by Lillian Gray Charles. Lillian is a holistic personal stylist that focuses on creative capsule wardrobes that capture the essence of women where they are and where they’re headed.
In this episode, we go way beyond ‘what to wear' to talk about the secret life your closet is already telling about you… even if you have no idea it’s snitching.
We dive into:
✨ How your clothes reveal the identity you’re still hiding behind
✨ Why understanding your body shape is less “fashion rules” and more “self-reverence”
✨ How relationships, heartbreaks, and boundary breakthroughs show up in your wardrobe (yes, your ex lives in your closet… but not for long)
Lillian gets real about the moments she lost herself, how she rebuilt her confidence through intentional style, and why a capsule wardrobe isn’t about minimalism. It’s about peace, power, and making getting dressed feel like a self-love ritual.
This conversation is deliciously honest, a little spicy, and packed with those “ohhhh THAT’S why I dress like that” revelations. It’s for the woman who’s done abandoning herself in her marriage, her habits, and now? Her closet.
If you’re ready to stop playing dress-up in an identity you’ve outgrown and start embodying the woman you’re becoming—this one is your episode.
Want to connect with Lillian? Find her on instagram here or her website here
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On the call we'll talk about what problems you're facing in your marriage, what your dream relationship looks like, and you'll leave with a blueprint to get you closer to what you want regardless if you decide to work with me or not.
✨ Chapters ✨
00:00 Introduction to Holistic Styling
02:51 The Importance of Personal Style
06:07 Body Shape and Clothing Choices
08:56 The Role of AI in Fashion
12:10 Relationships and Personal Identity
14:56 The Healing Power of Fashion
18:11 Empowerment Through Choice
20:57 Creating a Capsule Wardrobe
24:10 Navigating Breakups and Self-Discovery
26:57 Establishing Boundaries in Relationships
30:13 Conclusion and Future Directions
