Summary
In this episode of the Given a Purpose podcast, Jacques LaGrange dives deep into the concept of self-value, emphasizing its distinction from self-esteem. He explains that self-value remains constant regardless of external circumstances, while self-esteem fluctuates based on performance. Jacques encourages listeners to recognize their inherent worth and to set clear boundaries in their lives, asserting that what we tolerate becomes our standard. He shares personal anecdotes about the importance of valuing oneself and not over-explaining or undervaluing contributions. The episode culminates in a powerful reminder that our value is established by God and should not be negotiated with others, urging listeners to stop seeking validation and to live boldly in their worth.
Takeaways
Self-value does not equal self-esteem.
What you tolerate quietly becomes a standard.
You have to teach people how to treat you.
Stop chasing validation; your worth is already established.
Your value doesn't increase because someone finally notices you.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Self-Value
00:46 Defining Self-Value vs. Self-Esteem
02:13 Teaching Others How to Treat You
03:40 Recognizing Your Value
05:56 God's Perspective on Your Worth
09:47 Changing Behavior Through Self-Value
11:40 Stop Seeking Validation
13:30 Final Thoughts on Living in Purpose
