Women’s bodies go through changes in the course of their lives, but in the trenches, these changes from pregnancy, childbirth, stress, or trauma can feel like grief. Many women judge themselves for the weight, scars and visible reminders of survival that they carry. If you recognize this feeling, this episode is for you. JKO calls you out of that inner courtroom of relentless “self-occupation” and harsh self-blame, into self-compassion.
Nuggets of wisdom in this episode
The grief of body change is not vanity
The changes from child-birth and c-sections
Do not join “the committee” of judgement against yourself
Why self-compassion is not self-indulgence
Key Scriptures: Psalm 139:14, Romans 8:1, Matthew 11:28
References
Bessel van der Kolk’s book, The Body Keeps the Score
Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area.
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