What does every married couple need to understand about sex—especially when conversations online say things like “men don’t need sex”?
In this episode, we unpack 5 essential truths about sex in marriage that are often misunderstood, oversimplified, or argued about without enough clarity. While it’s true that no one needs sex to physically survive, reducing sexual intimacy to something optional—or purely personal—can quietly damage a marriage over time.
We explore why sexual desire isn’t just about pleasure, release, or pressure, but about desiring the spouse as a whole person. We also address the real fears many people carry into conversations about sex—fear of being used, objectified, or reduced to a body—and why those fears are sometimes justified and sometimes misplaced.
Most importantly, we present a vision of marital sexuality that’s bigger than both obligation and autonomy. When rightly understood, male sexual desire can reflect Christ’s self-giving love and pursuit of His Church, transforming sex from a battleground into a place of unity, trust, and mutual gift.
In this episode, we cover:
• Why men don’t need sex to survive—but marriages do need sexual intimacy
• How sexual desire goes beyond pleasure and points toward the spouse as a person
• Why the phrase “men don’t need sex” can confuse the lived experience of male sexuality
• How fear of being used or objectified shapes misunderstandings about sex
• How male desire, properly ordered, can mirror Christ’s love for His Church
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