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Episode Summary

In this episode, Katie talks to Carly — a mum to an 11-year-old girl and stepmum to two boys aged 10 and 14. Carly and her partner have lived together for two years, and during that time she’s gone from feeling like a confident parent to feeling constantly anxious whenever her stepsons are around.

Carly speaks openly about the discipline clashes, emotional tension and biological loyalty dynamics that surface when two families try to blend. She also shares candidly why the family have decided to put a pause on stepfamily holidays for now — and the huge impact that decision has had on everyone’s wellbeing.

This is an honest, incredibly relatable conversation for anyone trying to bring two sets of children together under one roof.

In This Episode We Explore

• The anxiety that can arise when blending families
• Why confident parents can feel like “new beginners” in stepfamily life
• Discipline differences between two households
• How biological bonds and loyalty affect blended dynamics
• The emotional impact of bringing children of similar ages together
• Why some stepfamilies pause holidays — and what it means
• Feeling judged, unsure or “never quite right” as a step-parent
• The invisible emotional load of trying to make everything work
• What helps parents and step-parents stay grounded during blending

These themes match the most common things families search online when they’re struggling to blend, manage discipline or navigate loyalty binds.

If This Resonates
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Who This Episode Is For

• Stepmums blending families or moving in together
• Parents navigating discipline clashes between households
• Anyone struggling with loyalty binds or biological pull
• Women feeling anxious or unsettled in stepfamily life
• Step-parents trying to build connection across two family systems
• Listeners wanting real, honest stories of blending families

Helpful Links
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