- Best coaching advice received?
- What happens in a session is not about the coach.
- Notice what’s happening without making it personal—it's all data.
- Still improving?
- Mastering detachment from being hijacked by emotions.
- Working to feel deeply without getting stuck in the goo.
- Most outrageous moment?
- Dropping an F-bomb in a session with a lawyer (and surviving).
- Using metaphor and creativity to “snap” clients out of logic loops.
- What still makes you squirm/feel triggered?
- Clients not taking accountability.
- Wrestling with when and how to challenge clients directly.
- Advice to new coaches?
- Don’t do this unless you’re ready to work on yourself… constantly.
- This is not a side hustle—it’s a practice that rewires your soul.
- Something you had to conquer?
- Letting go of judgment (of self and clients).
- Holding paradoxes: shedding and learning at the same time.
- Using AI?
- AI helps distill 360s, draft proposals, and spot themes.
- Used as a co-pilot, not a crutch—Julia’s still doing the heavy lifting.
- What you’ve learned about yourself?
- We’re all an expression of the evolving universe.
- The goal is alignment—being fully yourself as a coach and a human.
- Fun Stuff – Favorite Movie?
- Remember the Titans – because courage, change, and Denzel.
