One thing we don’t get to talk about often is the role that fashion can play in gender awakening and identity. But in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, our guest Taj Taylor brings it to the forefront of the conversation. Today we discuss family dynamics, self-acceptance, and the importance of community support. Taj emphasizes the significance of self-love and acceptance as foundational elements for finding love and building meaningful relationships. And, together we encourage listeners to embrace your true selves and recognize the power of love and authenticity in your lives.
Episode References:
We talk:
07:22 - Understanding self: the journey of gender identity
15:20 - Navigating acceptance: the struggle with identity
27:10 - Navigating family dynamics and acceptance
39:46 - Cultural challenges and personal growth in Taiwan
45:51 - Reaffirming identity and building relationships
58:09 - The power of visibility and self-expression
01:10:22 - Finding love through self-discovery
Read more about Taj in their bio below:
Taj is a 29-year-old nonbinary content creator, tattoo artist and spiritual medium. They’re an advocate for love, authenticity, and trusting in the divine, and their work blends intuition, storytelling, and art to help their community feel safer and more rooted in who they are. Taj also creates tools for healing, including their queer love manifestation journal, designed to help people attract deeper love, connection, and emotional safety. Taj’s mission is to hold space for transformation and remind others that they are always worthy of a life that feels aligned and deeply loving.
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