Real relationships don’t grow by accident—they grow with intention.
In this message, Pastor Josh Thomas walks through Song of Solomon 2–3 to show us what it actually takes to build something real in a world full of “fake plant” relationships. From the outside, everything can look perfect—but without real care, there’s no life, no depth, and no lasting fruit.
Bottom line:
What’s real will always yield a return—but it’s going to take real work.
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this message will challenge you to stop settling for surface-level connections and start cultivating something that actually grows.
Three keys to building a healthy relationship:
Pursue with Purpose – Stop drifting and start dating with clarity and intention
Find the Foxes – Address the small issues before they become big problems
Don’t Rush the Romance – Protect what God is building by honoring His timing
We all face the same tension: when something good starts growing, we either rush it or run from it. But God’s design invites us to slow down, stay intentional, and trust the process.
This message also speaks directly to:
Couples who feel stuck or disconnected
Singles navigating dating with anxiety or uncertainty
Anyone longing for something deeper, healthier, and real
Key takeaway:
You don’t just find a great relationship—you build one.
And ultimately, every relationship points back to the greatest love story of all—the one where Jesus pursued us, restored us, and made a way for us to experience true, lasting love.
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