What Are We? | Song of Solomon 1:8–2:7
Dating doesn’t have to be confusing—but for most people, it is.
In this message, we unpack one of the most important (and often overlooked) questions in relationships: What are we actually doing here? From undefined relationships to mixed signals, many of us step into dating without clarity, purpose, or a biblical framework.
Walking through Song of Solomon 1:8–2:7, we discover that God’s design for relationships is intentional—and it’s built in a very different order than culture teaches.
Here’s the truth:
Dating isn’t something that just happens to you. It’s something you do with vision.
Instead of building relationships on attraction first, Scripture shows us a better way:
Faith – What is your life built on?
Circle – Who is speaking into your relationship?
Reality – Do you actually know each other in real life?
Chemistry – Is there mutual encouragement and attraction?
Intimacy – Is it happening in the right time and context?
When you get the order right, you build something that lasts. When you don’t, things get complicated—fast.
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this message will challenge you to:
Stop settling for “vibes” and start pursuing vision
Build relationships with clarity and intention
Become the kind of person worth building a life with
Put Jesus back at the foundation of it all
Key takeaway:
Don’t just ask “What are we?” — ask “What are we building?”
If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or unsure about relationships, this message is for you.
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