After some thought-provoking conversations with monogamous (non-lifestyle) friends, Vee and Elle discuss what the word "vanilla" actually means to them, and pose the same question to a few of their CNM (consensually non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism II in Jamaica.
What does “vanilla” mean to Elle and Vee as people in the lifestyle? (2:07)
What is “spicy vanilla”? (7:24)
Are we meant to be monogamous? (11:49)
Using "vanilla" to describe career choices. (13:58)
Offending monogamous friends with the use of "vanilla". (16:56)
Polling ENM (ethically non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism on what "vanilla" means to them:
The final verdict: what does "vanilla" mean to people in the lifestyle? (38:40)
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