Do you think your pet “loves” something, but they’re actually just stressed, overwhelmed, or trying to cope? Many pet parenting problems start when we judge animal behavior through a human lens and miss what our pets are trying to tell us.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Rachel Malamed, a board-certified veterinary behaviorist (veterinary psychiatrist), to talk about what pets actually need to feel safe, balanced, and mentally healthy in a human home. We get into enrichment that matters (not just expensive stuff), how to spot subtle “please stop” signals, and why forcing social situations can backfire fast. Plus, we unpack the so-called “guilty look” and what’s really going on.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
CTA: If this made you rethink even one thing, send this episode to a friend who loves bringing their pet everywhere.
CTE: Hit reply and tell me what your pet does that you used to think was “attitude.”
CONNECT WITH DR. RACHEL MALAMED:
Website: www.behaviordogtor.com
Find her on: YouTube, Facebook
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Books: Decoding Your Cat | Decoding Your Dog
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