Death doula and funeral celebrant Jill McClennen interviews Mel Bennett, founder of Life Forest in New Hampshire, a nonprofit cemetery and public arboretum where human and pet cremated remains are buried with newly planted trees. After caring for her mother through early-onset frontal lobe dementia, Mel received her mother’s ashes in a plastic bag and box, which pushed her to create a more meaningful, healing legacy. She explains how the land is conserved, how each tree is legally protected as a burial monument, and how families get long-term, deeded access using GPS coordinates and mapping software. Mel shares the science behind their certified wool shrouds that support soil health, plus QR-code memorial markers for equal memorialization. Life Forest prioritizes accessibility, offers free burial for anyone under 20, supports unclaimed deaths, and helps expand similar cemeteries in other states.
00:00 Her Smile in Bloom
00:18 Show and Guest Intro
01:29 Mel’s Roots and Big Question
02:34 Childhood Fear and Mom’s Wisdom
04:40 Dementia Caregiving Journey
07:13 Ashes in a Bag
09:08 From Idea to Life Forest
11:04 Planting the Dogwood
13:09 Building the Arboretum
16:47 Legal Protections for Trees
18:39 Deeded Rights and GPS Mapping
25:15 Wool Shroud Science
28:59 How Families Prepare Remains
31:18 Choosing the Right Tree
32:12 Soil Sun and Pollination
35:03 Public Arboretum Access
36:20 QR Code Memorials
38:57 Pets Fees and Fairness
42:49 Accessibility and Community
43:31 Child Grief Book Project
50:49 Expanding Life Forest Model
54:40 Where to Find Life Forest
55:16 End of Life Planning Call
https://lifeforestcemetery.com/
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