A birthday turns into a love letter to growth. Gerald, my husband, joins me on the mic for his 34th and ended up tracing our family story arc. From two restless freshmen in a class we couldn’t stand to a home full of tiny feet, takeout picnics, and an unexpected sense of calm.
Along the way we unpack the myth that a four-year degree is the only path to a good life. And why chasing titles left us more anxious than secure. The shift came when we started designing for resilience: skills over status, options over ego, and a family baseline we can always return to.
Parenting remade our definition of love. Gerald talks about learning patience and empathy as daily practices as a father. We get honest about dividing roles by strengths, protecting our children from adult stress, and using simple rituals to reconnect—dance breaks in the kitchen, a shared plate, a song that time-warps us back to the early days. Comfort became our north star, not as an excuse to coast, but as proof we built a safe landing when life throws us curveballs.
Gerald leaves us with a simple piece of relationship advice: step outside your ego to find a path forward together. If you’re craving practical, tender takeaways on partnership, parenting, career choices, and creating a steady home, this episode is for you.
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