"Don’t ever say to anyone who has lost someone, “This is God’s will” or “I know God has something wonderful in this.” Let them have their loss. Do not put a band aid on a deep wound. What God has in this, God does not need your anxiety to show them. Just be there. Sing the song with them. Lament, weep, and wait." Sermon 2 from my 2009 series, "Feeling the Blues"