In this week's episode of Unlicensed, Jill is joined by Dr. Tara, who offers some sex advice and shares her story of becoming a Sex + Relationship expert after growing up in a conservative country. Today, Dr. Tara explains the key difference between sexual confidence vs. sexual esteem and why a strong sense of self is important within them, reveals the best ways to communicate your sexual needs to your partner in the form of a "sh*t sandwich*, and discusses why kink shaming is harmful to the therapeutic healing that kinky sex can bring into people's lives. Consider this your soft launch into therapy!