“She wasn’t my type. She was the wrong colour.”
“I cheated. I didn’t want her. I had to grieve someone else.”
In this jaw-dropping episode, we react to the viral interview with Pastors Reggie & Kelley Steele, where love, trauma, and toxic endurance collide. If you've ever been taught to suffer in silence for marriage — this is for you.
We break down: The full Reggie & Kelley Steele story Shocking statements that triggered the internet The real danger of “struggle love” and spiritual gaslighting What real love looks like — and what it doesn't How to avoid mistaking trauma for testimony
This is not about dragging a couple. This is about protecting women from being emotionally sacrificed in the name of marriage.
Watch now and tell us — was this a testimony… or trauma?
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Timestamps:
00:00 – “She was the wrong colour.”
01:00 – Viral clip recap: What Reggie & Kelley said
04:00 – Struggle love explained
07:30 – 4 ways to avoid toxic, disguised love
11:30 – Our final thoughts: Pain is not proof of purpose
What do you think? Is this testimony… or just trauma with scripture wrapped around it?
Drop your honest thoughts. Let’s talk about it. No judgment — just truth.
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