1. **Lack of Communication**: They're hard to reach, don't respond to messages for days, or often cancel plans last minute. Consistent communication is key to a healthy relationship.
2. **Disrespectful Behavior**: They are rude to waitstaff, talk over you, or show little respect for your opinions and boundaries. How they treat others is a good indicator of their true character.
3. **Overly Controlling**: They want to dictate who you see, what you wear, or check your phone. A partner should trust and respect your independence.
4. **Lack of Accountability**: They always blame others for their problems and never take responsibility for their actions. This can lead to a lack of growth and understanding in the relationship.
5. **Excessive Jealousy**: A little jealousy can be normal, but excessive jealousy, especially without reason, can be a sign of insecurity and possessiveness.
6. **Moving Too Fast**: Declaring love too quickly or pushing for serious commitment right away can indicate immaturity or a desire to control.
7. **Bad Financial Habits**: They are secretive about their finances, have significant debt they're not dealing with, or expect you to pay for everything. Financial irresponsibility can impact both partners in a serious relationship.
8. **Substance Abuse**: Regular overindulgence in alcohol or drugs can lead to serious relationship issues, including neglect, abuse, and financial strain.
9. **Past Relationships**: They speak negatively about all their ex-partners or claim to be the victim in every past relationship. This could indicate a lack of self-awareness or unwillingness to take responsibility for their part in past relationship failures.
10. **Inconsistent or Evasive About the Future**: They avoid discussions about the future or are vague about their intentions. If you're looking for a serious relationship, it's important to be on the same page about where things are headed.
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