Welcome back to Loving Me Before I Love You, where self love isn’t gendered, and accountability belongs to everyone in the room.
In this episode, I’m joined by Louis “Louie V” Vick for a real conversation about self love from the male perspective. No fluff. No posturing. Just truth. Louie V blends professional presence with unfiltered real talk, the kind that challenges comfort zones and calls people higher without crossing lines. He says what most people think but don’t articulate, and he says it from lived experience.
We get into:
• what self love actually looks like for men
• how unhealed men show up in relationships
• why loving yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary
• accountability, emotional maturity, and growth
• what women misunderstand about men and vice versa
This episode is for women who want healthier relationships and are open to understanding how men process identity, love, and responsibility. It’s also for men willing to look in the mirror and do the work instead of pointing fingers.
Connect with our guest, Louie V:
TikTok & Facebook: @thelouiev
Instagram: @_thelouiev
YouTube: @the_louiev
If today’s conversation expanded your perspective and you’re ready to deepen your self love journey:
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This is Loving Me Before I Love You. The ultimate relationship starts with you. Anything built without that foundation will eventually collapse.