You did the work. You stopped shrinking. You let someone in. And it still ended with you feeling invisible.
So what do you do with that?
In this episode I'm responding to a message from a listener going through a divorce. She didn't shrink. She showed up fully. And it still ended in abandonment.
Her question was simple and devastating: how do you reconcile that? And, how do you ever trust again?
On today's episode I get into why adult relationships can reopen old wounds rather than heal them, what your nervous system is actually doing when someone starts pulling away, the difference between a trigger and a real present wound, and what rebuilding trust actually looks like from the inside out.
This one is for anyone who thought they'd finally broken the pattern only to find themselves right back in the wound.
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